What Kind of Lover Are You? ♥ ♥ ♥

betty-boopWe’re all bibliolatrous when it comes to books—otherwise, you wouldn’t be reading this.  The question is, how do you love your books—not how much, but in what manner do you love them? For Valentine’s Day, I think it appropriate for us to consider the ways. 

You're a Courtly Lover if you . . .

Can't bear the thought of using an e-reader (a Kindle)
Use bookmarks; never leave an open book face down
Never write on or dog-ear the pages
Hate having to part with old books, even ones you dislike
Always remove the dust jacket while reading
Never read while eating
Never read in the tub or at the beach (especially with a
   hardcover)
Adore the smell and sound of opening a brand new book.

 For you ”a book’s physical self is sacrosanct . . . its form inseparable from its content.”  Your duty as a Platonic lover “is a noble but doomed attempt to conserve forever the state of perfect chastity in which the book left the bookseller.”

You're a Carnal Lover if you . . .

Love using an e-reader (a Kindle)
Leave the book splayed—even knowing it damages the spine
Write, circle underline, or dog-ear the pages
Pass on old books with eagerness
Use the dust jacket’s flap as a bookmark
Love to read while you eat, bathe, or go to the beach
Use books for doorjams, paperweights, drink coasters, or
   shims
Love used books because others have enjoyed what you’re
   enjoying

For you  ”a book’s words are holy, but the paper, cloth, cardboard, glue, thread, and ink that contain them are merely vessels.”  You feel no remorse in treating them wantonly because “hard use is a not a sign of disrespect but of intimacy.”

Here are the two extremes.  Thanks to Anne Fadiman’s delightful book, Confessions of a Common Reader,  for these two distinctions.  Fadiman talks about her father, who when traveling would rip out pages he’d already read and toss them into the trash—it lightened his load—obviously a carnal lover.  At the other end of the spectrum is a friend of hers who buys two books, one to read . . . and the other to preserve in its pristine state on the bookshelf—courtly to the max.

A fun book club discussion:  which type of lover are you?

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